Nice To See Someone Else Under The Microscope

You’ve heard us say this before: being a boomer means from the moment you were born, someone was analyzing your every move, speculating on your motivations and labeling you as just one more indication of an overall trend for your generation.

Well guess what? The “experts” seem to be turning their magnifying glasses away from us – and onto our children.

Want proof? Consider the recent NY Times long-winded magazine article, “What Is It About 20-Somethings?” The piece is ten pages long on the online version!

Among the revelations (italics denotes our sarcasm)…our kids are taking a longer time to grow up:

We’re in the thick of what one sociologist calls “the changing timetable for adulthood.” Sociologists traditionally define the “transition to adulthood” as marked by five milestones: completing school, leaving home, becoming financially independent, marrying and having a child. In 1960, 77 percent of women and 65 percent of men had, by the time they reached 30, passed all five milestones. Among 30-year-olds in 2000, according to data from the United States Census Bureau, fewer than half of the women and one-third of the men had done so. A Canadian study reported that a typical 30-year-old in 2001 had completed the same number of milestones as a 25-year-old in the early ’70s.

So, is this a good thing or a bad thing? Reporter Robin Marantz Henig does a nice job of looking at both sides of that question:

It’s easy to see the advantages to the delay. There is time enough for adulthood and its attendant obligations; maybe if kids take longer to choose their mates and their careers, they’ll make fewer mistakes and live happier lives. But it’s just as easy to see the drawbacks. As the settling-down sputters along for the “emerging adults,” things can get precarious for the rest of us. Parents are helping pay bills they never counted on paying, and social institutions are missing out on young people contributing to productivity and growth. Of course, the recession complicates things, and even if every 20-something were ready to skip the “emerging” moratorium and act like a grown-up, there wouldn’t necessarily be jobs for them all.

Henig goes on to say that we’re “caught in a weird moment,” and anyone of us who has kids in their 20s right now would have to agree. But then, our parents would probably say they felt caught in a weird moment when we were in our 20s in the turbulent-for-different-reasons 60s and 70s.

But isn’t it interesting (and dare we say, refreshing?) to think that researchers may have finally found a new generation to pick on? Sorry kids…

If you’ve got some time on your hands, you can click here to read the entire NY Times piece.

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Spend Your Retirement Down On The Farm

One thing about being a boomer…someone is always talking about some new trend we’ve started.

This week it’s news that boomers are leaving their desk jobs and turning to a life of farming. You have to admit it sounds like a very bohemian thing to do: retire from the cubicle and corporate uniform, put on some bib overalls and start growing organic beets.

Dailyyonder.com profiles three Texas boomers who’ve left jobs (attorney, graphic designer, customs agent) and gone back to the land. Not everyone is cut out for this kind of retirement, but agriculture folks are definitely seeing a trend here: (more…)

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Empty Nest Got You Down?

Here’s something for boomers who are missing the pitter patter of little feet. An innovative community group in Oregon has started a program called “Babies & Boomers.”

Here’s their thinking: they need volunteers for their Early Head Start and Head Start programs…many baby boomers are at a place in their lives where they have the time and the desire to volunteer, and the energy (at least many of us still have the energy) to work with young children. Volunteer coordinator Madeline Enos adds that the boomer generation definitely has the skill set:

We want to tap into that and provide meaningful volunteer opportunities that give them the chance to really utilize their skills and work with young children which are, of course, the most vulnerable population and full of potential.”

Boomers remember when President Kennedy declared, “Children are the world’s most valuable resource and its best hope for the future,” and we took his words to heart. Programs like “Babies & Boomers” give us another opportunity to make a positive impact on future generations.

Besides, when was the last time you got to read “Hop on Pop” aloud to an enthusiastic audience? Here’s your chance if you live along the southern coast of Oregon. For info on volunteering, visit the Oregon Coast Community Action website by clicking here or go to www.orcca.us.

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5 Steps To The Fountain Of Youth

From the 2010 Del Webb Baby Boomer Survey comes a revelation that seems obvious to us bohemian boomers: We feel younger than our chronological age. Btw, Del Webb is the county’s largest builder of “active adult communities” – no one dares to call them “retirement homes” anymore.

Back to their survey: The latest results show those of us turning 50 this year say we actually feel 10 years younger than that. Boomers older than 50 feel about 13 years younger than their physical age.

To what do they attribute their feeling of youthfulness? The survey shows it has to do with these five activities:

1. Exercise regularly — More than 55 percent work out regularly as a way to feel youthful.

2. Hit the books — Nearly a third have gone or will go back to school.

3. Volunteer — More than 60 percent are giving back to their communities by volunteering.

4. Still working — More than 70 percent plan to work in “retirement” either part-time, full-time or in starting a new career.

5. Trying something new, like yoga or photography — Approximately 40 percent have taken up a new hobby or activity.

Again, this is nothing new to the bohemians among us – we’re all about staying as active and engaged in society as we can, regardless of the years on us.

But here’s something interesting, the results show just about every boomer surveyed says old age begins at 80. What do you want to bet that number will be going up in future surveys? Let’s face it, old age is always several years away from whatever age we are when you ask us about it.

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Listen To This…If You Still Can

Remember how your ears would ring for several hours after a rock concert? You knew that was going to come back to bite you some day. Apparently that day is close at hand.

Right now about 36 million people in the U.S. suffer hearing loss. But as you might guess, that number is increasing as boomers grow older. One hearing loss education organization estimates that number will double by the year 2030.

Yep, that’s 72 million folks constantly uttering, “Say what now?”

A couple of thoughts come immediately to mind:

First, it might be a smart thing to start buying stock in the Miracle Ear company.

Second, your parents did try to warn you that going to Alice Cooper and Black Sabbath concerts would damage you. Although they were talking about your moral character…not your ear drums.

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CBS Proclaims “If You’re Over 40, You’re Old”

Another day, another insult. This time from a major television network, as reported by Deadline Hollywood:

After separating contestants by race and gender in recent editions of Survivor, it was probably inevitable for the CBS reality series to also play the age card. Indeed, the network this morning announced that the 20 new castaways on Survivor: Nicaragua will be divided into “two tribes of 10: Young vs. Old.” What was surprising for me was the criteria: The “old” tribe features “individuals over the age of 40,” while the “young” tribe is comprised by “individuals 30 years of age and younger.” Given CBS’ demo makeup, 40-year-olds are actually on the young end of the spectrum. Looking for a way to alienate your younger viewers? Just call them “old.”

Way to go CBS.

Here’s the conundrum that everyone but CBS seems to realize: If 30 and under is young, and 40 and older is old…what are you if you’re between 30 and 40? Is that stage of life some kind of age purgatory?

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News Flash! Boomers Are Media Savvy

Gimme a break! This is news? What cave have these researchers been living in?

This latest “revelation” appears in an article titled, “Busting myths about baby boomers,” published by Media Life magazine. They interview someone at Nielsen about that research firm’s new study that shows:

Just how off base some of our impressions of older people are. The research shows that boomers as a group are early adopters who consume huge amounts of media, including more time-shifted television than their 18-24 counterparts, and they comprise a surprising one-third of all social media users.” (more…)

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Say That To My Face! Greatest Movie Insults Ever…

This has actually been out on YouTube for a couple of weeks, but we want to make sure you don’t miss it. A guy named Harry Hanrahan must have a lot of time on his hands. First, he compiled The 100 Cheeziest Movie Quotes of All Time, then the 160 Greatest Arnold Schwarzenegger Quotes of All Time.

His latest mash-up is the 100 Greatest Movie Insults of All Time. And this latest compilation is a masterpiece of wicked and foul-mouthed cinema put-downs. Hanrahan has edited these clips in such a way that each scene builds on top of the previous one; getting progressively funnier and more outrageous as we watch.

Much of this profane abuse comes from movies we boomers know and love – even Betty White gets a cameo – Enjoy:

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Words To Live By & Some That Are Just B.S.

We love quotes. You can tell by the way we adorn the bottom of our home page with some of our favorite “bohemianisms.”

We appreciate the way some people can put just the right words together and create a phrase that inspires us, makes us laugh or even moves us to tears. You jot them down in a journal, include them in your signature line for e-mail, and try so very hard to commit them to memory.

Then, there are those quotes that move you in a different way. You read and ponder them for a minute, and then exclaim, “I’ve never in my life read such bullshit!”

For bohemian boomers, the distinction is obvious. Let’s start with words that truly encourage us as we journey through middle age: (more…)

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Summer Musings – bohemian boomer style

It was one of those days that come so rarely now; a whole afternoon spent lounging in and around the swimming pool. Even though I had my nose stuck in my mystery novel, I couldn’t help but be distracted now and then by laughing children, and the splash of a teen-ager executing a perfect can-opener off the diving board.

It got me to thinking about all the things that filled our summers when we were teens. At the risk of getting all sentimental – something bohemians are loathe to do – here are some musings about summer that I’ll bet many of you share with me: (more…)

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